Girls are special and when it comes to impressing them, you need to
invest an extra thought in your approach. The trick is to become the center of her
attention without actually letting her know it.
It may take some time to impress
an girl, but with some patience, it is certainly possible. Read on to gain
an insight into the art of wooing girls.
- Be Confident: You can apply this tip for
impressing almost any girl. Girls are naturally more attracted to men
who are confident. Being confident does not mean being boastful. It
simply means that you are comfortable with yourself and sure of your
abilities. Having a confident attitude will also convey to the girl that
she can depend on you. Believe it or not, but girls do look for these
qualities in men.
- Impress Her Friends: This tends to have
an indirect but amplified effect on the girl. By impressing her friends
you can trigger a chain reaction which will eventually cause your dream
girl to be impressed with you. You do not have to invest an effort to
impress each one of her friends, but just her closest friends. Girls
form their opinion of men by talking and discussing with their friends.
If you are able to impress a girl's friends, then you are half way
through impressing her.
- Set Yourself Apart: You can't expect to
impress a girl until you set yourself apart from her other friends. You
don't need to be flashy, but rather, be distinctively caring for the
girl. Make your woman feel that you genuinely care for her and can take
pains to be there for her. This whole process is gradual and it may take
some time before the girl actually notices that she is important to
you.
- Be Chivalrous: One of the age old ways of
impressing women, being chivalrous can very well cast a good impression
on a girl. Though this is one of the basic things while dealing with
women, it is certainly very important. Indian women have a high regard
for men who respect them. Simple and trivial things like opening the
door for her, pulling out chairs, and getting the bill can make a
special place for you in the heart of your girl.
- Cultivate a Talent: Girls definitely have
a special place for men who have a creative talent. A talent can easily
help you to stand out from everybody, in her eyes. However, you need to
ensure that you are actually good with your talent or it will probably
count for naught. Playing the guitar or any other musical instrument is
among the conventional talents of men that appeal to women. You can also
try your hand at poetry or sketching to come off as a little eccentric.
- Make an Impression on Her Family: This
tip holds good especially in India. Impressing the family of a girl will
automatically make way for impressing the girl. If you have found the
‘one', then this pointer can come in really handy for you. You can show
off your good values and abilities to impress the family of the girl.
- Show off your Intellectual Side: You can
certainly make a lasting impression on a girl if you are intellectual.
Indian girls have a predilection for men who have a rich intellectual
side, especially from the perspective of viability of a long term
relationship. However, do observe precaution that while showing off your
intellectual side; you do not come off as nerdy or mundane.
- Don't Come off as Desperate: One of the
worst things you can do while trying to impress a girl is coming off as a
desperate people-pleaser. Always remember that you need to be subtle in
your approach or all of your efforts will go in absolute vain. It is
important to show your good attributes, but do not try too hard to make
them apparent.
- Work on Your Appearance: Looking good is
apparently a prerequisite for impressing a girl. If you are not too sure
about your fashion sense, then you can always consult a friend who has a
good taste in clothes. You also need to take into account that it is
not just your clothes that make up your appearance. You are also
required to groom yourself so that you are counted among suave and
cultured men.
- Take an Interest in Her: Women like men
who can lend a ear to them. A good listener is one of the qualities
women look for in their potential partners. You can also hone yourself
better to her liking if you have an insight into her likes and dislikes.
By taking a genuine interest in her, you can also convey that you care
for her and respect her views, opinions and interests.
- Compliment Her: A girl will always
appreciate some genuine compliments towards her. But you do need to
steer clear of the obvious applause that she probably gets from
everybody. Notice the little qualities she has and appreciate them so
that she knows that she is in your radar. However, the age old
compliments about beauty and looks also work on most girls if you make
sure they are genuine.
Women are not that hard to please; it's just that
they take a little longer to please. All you need to be is consistent,
yet a little subtle in your efforts to please the girl. However, do
ensure that you are investing your efforts for the right girl.